Now we see a reflection in a mirror; then we will see face-to-face. Now I know partially, but then I will know completely in the same way that I have been completely known. — 1 Corinthians 13:12
An influential book I read in seminary dealt with faith development. It linked our faith to our physical/mental development.
In our younger years, we see things black-and-white; I’d guess most teenagers, at some point, believe they know everything, right? I did. And when I encountered Jesus, I knew he’d saved me from my sins and the Bible was a perfect roadmap that led me to salvation.
In our older years, we see things a lot grayer. Jesus is a lot bigger than my adolescent brain could comprehend. Decades later, he still surprises me. Those teachings and actions of his, now that I’m older, are deeper, more impactful, more profound, and more challenging than I’d imagined.
In short, Jesus becomes bigger to us as we grow older. Trying to keep him small is a sin, insulting him and stunting our growth, no matter our age. When we acknowledge that we’re still changing and developing, that humility opens us to a Jesus who transcends creeds, rituals, churches, and even religion.
When we admit that we’re not God but rather “know partially” as Paul says, then we might just see more clearly that “reflection in a mirror.” And that time when we see him “face-to-face” will hopefully not come as a huge shock.